Day 2 - Visibility Activation Challenge
Why Most Visibility Advice Doesn’t Work for You
If you’ve ever said:
I don’t know where to start.
I feel like I’m repeating what everyone else says.
I’m posting… but no one’s engaging.
I show up… but it drains me.
You’re not alone.
You’re likely caught in a visibility pattern.
Confidently Visible Café is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.
And the good news? Once you name it, you can shift it.
Why Most Visibility Advice Doesn’t Work for You
The loudest voices online often say:
Just post more
Get over yourself
Consistency is everything
But if you’re energetically sensitive, multi-passionate, or emotionally defined (like me — hi! Emotional Projector), you’ve likely internalised strategies that were never designed for your rhythm.
That’s why I created the 4 Visibility Patterns — to help intuitive solopreneurs stop blaming themselves and start understanding their energy.
The 4 Visibility Patterns
1. The Ghost
You’re invisible online — not because you don’t care, but because it feels too exposed to show up. You want to post… but something always stops you.
2. The Echo
You’re present, but not personal. You share quotes, other people’s posts, or general insights, but your unique voice is missing.
3. The Educator
You’re generous with content — maybe too generous. You share deep insights and teach often, but conversions are low, and people aren’t reaching out.
4. The Performer
You show up all the time. You’re consistent. People think you’ve got it together, but behind the scenes, it feels exhausting and disconnected.
Which of these patterns shows up most for you right now?
How does that pattern protect you — and how is it holding you back?
You might recognise parts of yourself in more than one. That’s okay. Awareness is power.
What’s Next
Tomorrow, we’ll explore what it actually means to be visible — and why so many intuitive creators feel invisible even when they’re active.
But if you’re already feeling seen in these patterns, and want to shift them with guidance and structure…
Join us in the Confidently Visible Café— a space where you’ll unlearn performative visibility and rebuild your brand voice from the inside out.
Confidently Visible Café is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.